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Seeking My Inner Kink
K.C. at SmokinHotBooks.com did a thought provoking post on BDSM the other day that inspired some interesting comments. K.C. may think she’s too vanilla for BDSM, but her milkshake brings all the boys to the yard…uh huh.
I’m not a huge fan of BDSM erotica and I’m pretty sure I have no plans in the 
immediate future to strap on the ball gag, a latex corset and hit a sex club. However, in the interest of research, I bought this little latex number and took pics of myself for this blog post. Hey, I’m dedicated, when can I say? That’s totally me. It is! Ok fine, it’s not but that’s what I’d would look like if I decided to grease up and squeeze into one of those things. It is! Fine, don’t believe me.
Although BDSM is not my thing, I’m not at all opposed to the whole Dom/sub relationship and or even turned off by it. It’s just not the kind of erotica I usually seek out. But after reading Bound to Please by Lilli Feisty, and Laid Bare by Lauren Dane, I’ve come to realize that a little light BDSM reading can take me a long way. I’ve even begun to wonder--if I were going to indulge in a Dom/sub relationship--would I be the Dom…or the sub?
What better way to seek a true reflection of my inner sexual self than an internet quiz, right? I mean, if it’s on the internet it must be accurate.
So I asked the Google gods for the links of enlightenment and found myself a quiz entitled, “What kind of Dominant or submissive are you?” Here is my result:
Fun submissive.
You are easy to get along with and have a sparkling personality. You are considerate and attentive without being clingy. You're attracted to the bad boys and dare-devils that may cause some to wonder why you ended up with them. You're looking for someone to encourage you to try new things and expand your horizons. Be careful not to get into anything (too) illegal or (too) dangerous as you may be caught up in the thrill. Ropes, blindfolds and new sensations will tickle your fancy.
I’m not gonna lie…I totally expected this result. Yep. *snort* Now go on, you know you want to. Go seek the truth. “What kind of Dominant or submissive are you?” Be sure to swing back by here and let me know your true kink. Just for…ahem, fun. :)
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29 Comments:
Total Dominant.
You have enough confidence and ambition for 2 people, literally.
You could easily live the life of a full time Master or Mistress, directing, punishing and praising those who serve you.
You probably enjoy owning finer things and you take care of them well. You'd like a lover (or lovers) who are attractive, intelligent and see you as the leader you are. You spare no expense in caring for what you have, that goes for /who/ you have double.
You can be demanding, on yourself as well as those around you. Mistakes and setbacks happen, do not let yourself get bent out of shape over them.
Yeeeah, BABY! Now where's my whip?! LMAO.
Spotted your name on twitter and had to befriend you based on your moniker alone. Glad I did because now I've found your blog.
Fact: Egalitarian Vanilla.
You aren't really interested in dominance or submission, I don't really know why you took this test! You are encouraging with better than average communication skills. You also have a natural diplomacy skill.
If your looking for spice in the night, whip cream in fun places may cure your boredom.
@Wendy--Girl, you gimme shivers!! I'm a sub you know *giggles*
@Travis--Hey! Thanks for stopping by! :)
@KC Girl, you called that one. Vanilla Milkshake all the way. Extra "whip" cream though? hehe
Fun Dominant.
You are adventurous and prefer your lover to follow your lead. You would like to push their limits and let you explore what out there with them.
Never boring, ropes and chains to whipped cream could liven up your night. You may even get inventive while doing laundry (spin cycle?!?).
Have fun but remember to double check for safety. With YOUR tastes there may not be a cop in the world who'd believe how that accident /really/ happened!
RAWR Baaaby!
Love your blog post, it gave me a giggle, and im liking your latex costume up there! HEE!
FV, don't be frontin', I give you gooood shivers *salacious wink* heee!
@Sparklybearsy Rarrarr! FUN Dom, that's what I'm talking about! :)
@Wendy yes mistress...*puts head down*
FV, see? I totally suck. That only makes me laugh! *clears throat* Yeah, uh you.. SLAVE!
Me Dom = FAIL.
@Wendy--It makes me laugh too, almost hysterically. However, you should keep in mind, I look EXACTLY like the chic in my blog post. I DO! hehe
I think we would totally suck at this! I mean - seriously! If you can't stop laughing while you're spanking a dude wearing a diaper then WHAT THE HELL, YO?
I'm just sayin'.
Oh, yeeeah you so do! I swear, I am NOT laughing at you!
WTF I took it again and got this:
Inspiration Seeking Vanilla.
Perhaps you're jaded, betrayed or just in a state of transition. You could play the submissive but you'd prefer a lover who can inspire you.
You have a cold firepit inside waiting for fuel, when you get your sizzle Watch Out. Your lover should guide you and encourage you.
However a little loss of control may not be bad, just to relax. A soft satin blindfold over your eyes and let your lover suprise you with randomly placed kisses. It may be just the cure for the placid fog.
Come on, this is rigged right?
I got Fun Dominant..I want to switch with someone
Fun Dominant.
You are adventurous and prefer your lover to follow your lead. You would like to push their limits and let you explore what out there with them.
Never boring, ropes and chains to whipped cream could liven up your night. You may even get inventive while doing laundry (spin cycle?!?).
Have fun but remember to double check for safety. With YOUR tastes there may not be a cop in the world who'd believe how that accident /really/ happened!
Hehe ;)
I'm "Motivated and Vanilla". What does that mean?? If I'm motivated then shouldn't my flavour be something more than just vanilla? Like, Vanilla Bean or French Vanilla or Chocoate/Vanilla Swirl? I'm gonna try again!
So, now I'm Inspiration Seeking Vanilla or something like that. Well, I'm gonna be Vanilla and proud of it. After all, don't we add vanilla to lots of things, french toast, cakes, pancake batter, a little behind the ears, vanilla flavoured rum, vanilla lattes and the vanilla bean was named after a woman's vagina because it supposedly resembles the shape of it (according to a quiz I took at Women's Health Magazine yesterday). So Vanilla and proud of it!
Total Dominant.
You have enough confidence and ambition for 2 people, literally.
You could easily live the life of a full time Master or Mistress, directing, punishing and praising those who serve you.
You probably enjoy owning finer things and you take care of them well. You'd like a lover (or lovers) who are attractive, intelligent and see you as the leader you are. You spare no expense in caring for what you have, that goes for /who/ you have double.
You can be demanding, on yourself as well as those around you. Mistakes and setbacks happen, do not let yourself get bent out of shape over them.
o_O shhhhh! it was supposed to be a secret. damn quiz. =P
I'm Fun Dominant too! Not sure if BF likes this result! LOL
Motivational and Vanilla
You could be Dominant if the mood struck you but you prefer to guide those you love to achieving their own goals.
You are caring and encouraging but don't forget, variety is the spice of life. Whips and chains may not be your thing but letting your lover be creative with body paint could heat up the evening.
What - no chocolate?!!!
BV - I am totally Motivational and Vanilla too it seems. hmmm.... body paint has never sounded fun to me LOL
Total Dominant.
You have enough confidence and ambition for 2 people, literally.
You could easily live the life of a full time Master or Mistress, directing, punishing and praising those who serve you.
You probably enjoy owning finer things and you take care of them well. You'd like a lover (or lovers) who are attractive, intelligent and see you as the leader you are. You spare no expense in caring for what you have, that goes for /who/ you have double.
You can be demanding, on yourself as well as those around you. Mistakes and setbacks happen, do not let yourself get bent out of shape over them.
Hmmm...I was a bit suprised by this. I had myself figured as a submissive but guess not.
;) VFG
Role-Play submissive.
You live for the thrill. Haunted houses, murder mysteries, vampire stories and tales of damsiels in distress excite you.
Being greeted by your lover by a trail of red rose petals threw a dimly lit hallway to the bedroom where a dozen candles are burning will always light up your night.
Better yet if you lover grabs you from behind and ...
Use a silly safe word like "Mouse" to let them know when you've REALLY had enough and aren't just screaming in the thrill.
Wow, didn't see this one coming!!!
Thanks for the quiz!! Very fun!
Hope you have a great night!
Hey... are you diggin in my closet?? LMAO! Couldn't resist that one!
LOVE this quiz! And I got this as a result:
Fun submissive.
You are easy to get along with and have a sparkling personality. You are considerate and attentive without being clingy.
You're attracted to the bad boys and dare-devils that may cause some to wonder why you ended up with them. You're looking for someone to encourage you to try new things and expand your horizons.
Be careful not to get into anything (too) illegal or (too) dangerous as you may be caught up in the thrill. Ropes, blindfolds and new sensations will tickle your fancy.
and what did I marry? Not a bad-boy or a dare-devil I'd say ROFL
@Leontine--YAY, I'm a fun sub too!! And no, I didn't marry a bad boy either but I lurve him just the same. hehe
@Cecile--YES, I'm totally diggin' around in your closet girl. Better lock it up because I'm liking the corsets :)
@VFG--You're not just any Dom...you're a total dom. Go big or go home! lol
@BV & @KV--my vanilla buddies...I like to think of you two with a cherry on top xoxo
@SusiSunshine--Fun dom? *waggles eyebrows* :)
@Smokinhotbooks omg girl, you are killing me with this. We all know you're a tiger...rarrrrr :)
@Mandi--I just knew you'd be a fun dom. And I'm glad too because my hot book boyfriend Mark St. Crow likes subs so he's all MINE!!
@Book Chick City--Well, with that hot pink hair, I think we all kinda knew you'd be a fun dom! :)
@Krystean Vanilla chicks unite! Power to the people. LOL
@jaymzangel--Yep, you've been outed...but we all knew, don't kid yourself :D
What a fun post. I will do the test later when I get a Minute. But I bet I am dom....
Lol!
LOL! Mine was Fun Dominant. To be honest my hubby would probably agree. I can be a bit pushy at times. ;)
Fun quiz!
Okay, my word verfy: intie
hhmm....
I agree with you. I wouldn't have thought I'd like BDSM romance but after I read Wicked Ties by Shayla Black and Laid Bare, I changed my mind.
This quiz was great, btw.
Role-Play submissive.
You live for the thrill. Haunted houses, murder mysteries, vampire stories and tales of damsiels in distress excite you.
Being greeted by your lover by a trail of red rose petals threw a dimly lit hallway to the bedroom where a dozen candles are burning will always light up your night.
Better yet if you lover grabs you from behind and ...
Use a silly safe word like "Mouse" to let them know when you've REALLY had enough and aren't just screaming in the thrill.
Better not let my hubby see this, he might get some ideas, lol.
Total Dominant.
You have enough confidence and ambition for 2 people, literally.
You could easily live the life of a full time Master or Mistress, directing, punishing and praising those who serve you.
You probably enjoy owning finer things and you take care of them well. You'd like a lover (or lovers) who are attractive, intelligent and see you as the leader you are. You spare no expense in caring for what you have, that goes for /who/ you have double.
You can be demanding, on yourself as well as those around you. Mistakes and setbacks happen, do not let yourself get bent out of shape over them.
I do not think this would be a shock to anyone who knew me...LOL!
Fun Post ...
I know mine is wrong - I am so not anything Vanilla - I am so not...
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